Another signal to be alert to is sexual innuendos. If you don't want sex, a wrestling match, or to be accused of teasing, watch out for the following invitations or situations:
"Why don't you relax and let me give you a back rub (including shoulder and feet massages and toe sucking)?"
"Can you help me with this zipper?"
"Would you mind coming in for just a minute while I check the house for burglars?"
"Let's just stretch out on the bed and cuddle. 1 promise nothing will happen until you're ready"
Late night walks on a deserted beach (particularly when carrying a blanket).
Naked hot-tubbing or skinny-dipping.
Almost all date rapes include alcohol or other drugs. Because you are most likely in recovery (or dating someone in recovery), the assumption is you won't be engaging in that behavior. If, however, being with someone who is drinking is a problem for you and if not drinking becomes a problem for your date, it's a sign to move on.
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