Putting your life on hold while you wait for a relationship to happen only leads to unhappiness. I encourage you to live your life vision and purpose while you are single. The best way to find your life partner is to be a happy and successful single living the life that you really want. You are a successful single when you are truly happy as you are. So, go ahead and pursue your goal of a relationship while living life fully in the present and letting go of your attachment to future outcomes!
You are a successful single when you are truly happy as you are.
Cathy continued to date recreation a for the next year, but as time passed, she knew that she was ready for a long-term relationship. With her coach, she'd worked on being the Chooser and realized that she'd spent too much time simply responding to men's queries online. What would happen if SHE did the choosing? After browsing online and taking notes, Cathy wrote down the names of eight men who might meet her Requirements. Little did she know what special man was in that group!
She and Samuel e-mailed for months, but they were both so busy dating other people that they didn't connect in person. When they met for coffee that spring, there was a spark. Samuel was a forty-five-year-old divorced lawyer with two school-aged children who came from an alcoholic family and had given up drinking fifteen years before. He and his ex-wife had an amicable relationship. Cathy and Samuel continued to see each other every week for a few months, growing closer. Cathy had worked so much on her life Vision - as well as her dating skills - that she knew this love was real.
Samuel was very impressed and supportive of Cathy's coaching experiences and wanted to attend relationship coaching with her. Cathy's coach used a program for pre-committed couples called "Partners in Life" that helped them evaluate the compatibility of their life Vision together, enhance their communication skills, and explore the possibility of building a successful committed relationship with each other. Gradually, they lei go of their fears and opened up to each other. Three months later they became so confident of their compatibility and readiness that they decided to get married. The day after Christmas, Samuel presented Cathy with his grandma's wedding ring, which fit perfectly. As did they!
Samuel presented Cathy with his grandma's wedding ring, which fit perfectly. As did they!
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