Contradiction? Hardly. If you can make her laugh, she's gonna stick around a little while to see what else you can do. But try to make her laugh and all you're gonna hear is crickets. So, therefore, no corny jokes and if you have to say something funny and witty, save it. It will always come out wrong. Don't act too funny. Most people are not natural comedians and more than likely you aren't either.
Sucks for you, but hey, that's the way the world works. Just be yourself. If you are, that's a good impression.
Another lovely lady I know said this, "This guy, bless his heart, this guy was so un-funny it was almost funny. He told these corny jokes and whenever there was an opening for him to say something 'funny', he would. I might have given him a chance but he really got on my nerves. It was one of the longest dates I've ever been on."
Don't be this guy. You could end up in a dating book!
If you want her to laugh, why not learn a few clean!jokes. (Dirty jokes are a real turn-off.) Self-
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